How the Platform Works ?
AI-Driven Matching
Evo Pair uses AI as a decision-support system, not a dating algorithm.
The platform analyzes declared roles, parenting values, lifestyle preferences, and biological compatibility indicators to surface intentional, role-aligned matches.
AI operates only during the anonymous stage, removing visual bias and filtering out non-viable scenarios early.
It does not make decisions for participants — it helps reduce uncertainty before medical or legal steps are taken.
Registration and Anonymous Profile Creation
Users register with an email address and create an anonymous profile. Each participant is assigned an internal ID. At this stage, users fill out a structured questionnaire to clearly declare their intent. Profiles remain anonymous; most parameters are visible to potential matches, except income, to avoid social bias during the intentional parenthood discovery phase.
Declaring Roles and Scenarios
Unlike donor banks or dating apps, Evo Pair allows users to define multiple possible roles. Participants can indicate if they want to co-parent without romance, act as a donor for a couple, or prefer reciprocal donation. No role is assumed or judged; the AI only works with the donor and co-parenting roles you explicitly declare.
Initial Genetic Compatibility Layer
Evo Pair does not perform DNA testing but allows users to upload raw DNA files (from 23andMe, AncestryDNA, etc.). Our system extracts relevant markers for informational compatibility—checking for close relatedness and carrier overlap—then immediately deletes the raw file. This is an informational filter used before clinics or contracts to assess co-parent compatibility.
AI-Driven Compatibility Analysis
This is where AI does the heavy work. It doesn't decide for people; it filters and narrows options. The compatibility score is calculated based on genetic carrier risks, health risk alignment, and lifestyle feasibility. High compatibility is prioritized, and users typically see the 10-100 best potential matches to ensure clarity over endless browsing.
Matching Without Exposure
All matching happens anonymously. Before any photos are shared, users can review declared expectations. AI ensures that donors are not matched with those expecting co-parenting and that financial expectations are aligned. This prevents conversations that should never happen by using our co-parenting vs donor logic.
Communication and Alignment
After a match, users can start an internal chat. Participants can discuss boundaries and parenting philosophies in a secure environment. Only when both sides reach mutual alignment do they share contact details or move forward with identity disclosure.
Independent Execution
Once alignment is reached, Evo Pair steps out. Medical procedures and legal agreements are handled independently by participants and their chosen professionals. As outlined in our white paper, the platform exists to support thinking before action, not to replace independent execution.
What AI Is — and Is Not — on EvoPair
• AI is: A compatibility filter, a risk-reduction tool, and a decision-support system.
• AI is not: A dating algorithm, a medical diagnostic tool, or an automated decision-maker.
AI helps people avoid blind decisions — nothing more, nothing less. We invite you to explore our support & invest section to learn more about our mission.
How Trust and Choice Are Built
Evo Pair is not about choosing a partner for dating. It is about choosing a co-parent or a donor — and that changes everything. When people think about future parenthood, appearance plays a different role. The question is not who looks attractive today, but what biological patterns may carry forward over time — in childhood, adolescence, and adulthood.
That is why Evo Pair treats visual information as context, not presentation.
Why We Ask for Photos Across Life Stages
To support informed and honest decision-making, Evo Pair requests a minimum set of three photos:
• Early childhood (approximately ages 3–5)
• Teenage years (approximately ages 12–17)
• Current photo (additional photos are optional)
These photos are not about image curation or self-promotion. They help participants understand how features evolve over time and what biological traits may realistically be passed on. Choosing a biological co-parent through our co-parent compatibility logic requires more transparency than traditional donor databases allow.
Anonymity First. Photos by Mutual Choice
All interaction on Evo Pair begins anonymously. Participants first align on values, parenting philosophy, and expectations within our intentional parenthood framework. Only after mutual alignment does the option to request photos become available. Photo sharing is never automatic; it requires explicit approval. This protects privacy and keeps the process intentional — not performative.
From Visual Context to Real Communication
After photos are shared, participants decide how to proceed: continued messaging, video calls, or in-person meetings. While Evo Pair is built for clarity and alignment, deeper personal connections may naturally develop. Romantic outcomes are not excluded — they are simply not the starting point. As explored in our co-parenting vs donor analysis, the priority is always the stability of the future family.